Bitter truth of life!!!
Its Bit Harsh to read and understand this but that's what the truth of life is!!! You came in this world alone and have to leave alone ....People may travel with you for a mile or so but won't travel it for you, its you who has to travel all the way long....
You're all on your own in this life!!!
We as humans tend to seek comfort in the company of other people and form emotional bonds with them. It is due to our need to belong. We want to belong to someone in some form, belong to some place, and we want people and things to belong to us. This need to belong is what makes the life much more complicated than it already is !!!
Our entire identity is based on on the idea of belonging - your last name is your mark of belonging to a certain family, you introduce yourself to a complete stranger telling what place you belong to, you elaborate on your occupation or profession by telling what organization you belong to.
But For sure every single relation you form will fade away due to one reason or the other and ultimately you will be left on your own to to deal with life.
It doesn't matter who you rely upon - your parents, friends, lover or spouse. Yes, they might love and care for you but things cannot remain the same forever even if everyone wants it to - physical distances trouble, priorities change, relationships sour, or if nothing else, the death takes away everything you thought was perfect. This holds true for your present life, or any future relationships and associations you might form going forward in life.
One thing that i have learnt is to live a contented life with yourself without forming bonds or associations with anyone around because I'm too frail a person to live through partings time and again. Others might feel the relationships and association are worth it but that's not what i think now...
Life is a journey, we will meet people now and then but no one is gonna stay forever as they have their own journey and everyone has to move on one day or the other , so its waste of time to get attached to someone, the earlier the better that we understand this fact ...
Our entire identity is based on on the idea of belonging - your last name is your mark of belonging to a certain family, you introduce yourself to a complete stranger telling what place you belong to, you elaborate on your occupation or profession by telling what organization you belong to.
But For sure every single relation you form will fade away due to one reason or the other and ultimately you will be left on your own to to deal with life.
It doesn't matter who you rely upon - your parents, friends, lover or spouse. Yes, they might love and care for you but things cannot remain the same forever even if everyone wants it to - physical distances trouble, priorities change, relationships sour, or if nothing else, the death takes away everything you thought was perfect. This holds true for your present life, or any future relationships and associations you might form going forward in life.
One thing that i have learnt is to live a contented life with yourself without forming bonds or associations with anyone around because I'm too frail a person to live through partings time and again. Others might feel the relationships and association are worth it but that's not what i think now...
Life is a journey, we will meet people now and then but no one is gonna stay forever as they have their own journey and everyone has to move on one day or the other , so its waste of time to get attached to someone, the earlier the better that we understand this fact ...
